While monogamy certainly has its advantages, so does casual sex. Unfortunately in a monogamous culture, casual sex requires a method of drawing a line between just sex and the beginning of a sexual relationship - and the best way of doing this is still good old professionalism.
What happens in the brothel stays in the brothel, so under the standard short term sex contract, you can both be as honest and friendly as you like, then go your separate ways.
No one likes having to pay for sex, yet most men prefer to ignore how many ways they actually do. From buying drinks, flowers, chocolates, dinners, jewellery, cars, houses, etc, to clothing, transport and nightclub entry costs, men are still expected to be the main financial providers for women. So why not simply do so honestly, in a traditional masculine way?
Most people now regard the outcomes of the sexual revolution as simply normal, and so don’t stop to consider how regular casual sex actually works. Instead of an honest contract, the man is expected to provide the woman with one or more emotional reasons to not want a relationship with him afterwards.
There are three basic popular ways of doing this: intoxication, devious emotional abuse (pickup artistry) and violence. Unfortunately, long-term relationships still often develop afterwards with the abuse / self abuse continuing indefinitely.
Absolute child support laws are of course a violation of men’s rights, so it’s every man’s duty to do everything reasonably necessary to avoid their power over him. Since sex workers are professionals, and since one of their major motivations is independence, a sex worker is less likely to steal a client’s sperm and try to profit from it.
While rapists of sex workers are much more likely to be accused (since brothels generally have security and the police on call), a normal client of a sex worker is more likely to be having sex with an honest, mature individual, who is therefore very unlikely to try and legally scapegoat him for her sexual problems (as male and female rapists do).
Most women have minds like teenage girls, and thus want to be sexually parented. Such a perverted mentality makes them feel threatened by men who want to fuck women who fuck like (gay) men. This makes regular dating easier, since immature women will be feel disgusted (with themselves) earlier (as they also are by bisexual men). Nb. there’s nothing wrong with an actual teenager wanting to have sex with someone much older.
Sex work is the oldest profession, and perhaps still the most unfairly maligned. Sex workers help men and women who like to to be honest and friendly, or who cannot help but do so (eg. those with autism). They provide intimacy to the old, disabled, physically ugly and those with psychological problems.
For this generosity they are condemned as “sinful whores” and “handmaidens of the patriarchy”. Although the most recent form of bigotry against them (and their clients) is to consider them automatic victims. Despite sex workers’ pleas for simple, full decriminalisation, in many Feminist nations they have been legally oppressed by the Swedish Model. It’s an especially devious form of persecution since it assumes women are children and thus heterosexual sex a form of child rape.
This is also the main reason not to go to a sex worker, but it’s important to learn from history. Gay men, and also lesbians, were long heinously persecuted in the West, simply for wanting sex with psychological equals. This trend continues against men who want to fuck women who think, feel and fuck like they do. Ie. while sex between biological men may have been decriminalised, masculine (honest and practical) sex has not in many jurisdictions, and so the fight must continue.
Last modified: 2022-04-07 15:23:00 UTC.